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The best kind of people.

Eyilayomi - December 1, 2020 - 38 comments

Heyy you🙈

It’s December, my favourite time of the year, every day is Christmas.

I saw a write up about pet peeves and annoying things that people do, I’m sure if I was to write on that there would be a whole lot to write but instead, I decided to write on my favourite people, things people do that I love.

1. Take good pictures

This is number 1 because “omo” people are somehow. It’s something we take for granted not everybody can take good pictures, some people will even waste your time 😭 if you have such amazing people in your life that can take good pictures of you, please hold on them, they are very special and you’re blessed.

I mean the right angles, they even tell you the different poses to do, people that make the effort to take your pictures.

Angels in human form

2. Buy you food

This should have been number 1 on the list, who doesn’t love food? let’s even talk more on about free food. This is one of the thoughtful things you can do for anyone, it can be their favourite food or just a tasty meal. Blissssss

3. Being Kind and respectful

It’s the little things and being kind is one of the best attributes anyone can have.

Treating people with respect regardless of who they are and what they do. e.g helps, drivers, waiters, people in general.

”A person’s a person, no matter how small” – Dr Seuss.”

Respect is one of life’s greatest treasures, I mean what does it all add up to if you don’t have that?” – Marilyn Monroe

4. Return things on time

This shouldn’t be part of it cause it’s something that you are not supposed to be reminded about, m when you borrow something you return it but as life may have it, it is on the list.

You might have been in a situation where you’d need to borrow something from someone stating you’ll return it at a particular time or the other, then that time comes and you don’t even talk about it again, please don’t be this person. My favourite people are those you don’t even have to remind.

P.s Even if you’re going to take longer than expected the least you can do is to let the person know instead of ignoring or not talking about it. If you’re going to borrow something please return it with the same energy you used to borrow it.

5. People that are there.

People that are there for you, that you can talk to about anything, there are some days you’ will just want to vent, not cause you want a piece of advice, but you just need someone that will listen, not judge you or make you feel less than you already feel, backing it up with comforting words that it is going to be fine.

My favourite❤️

6. Keep to their word

I remember growing up, how important promises and pinky promises were, today it’s one of the things that are taken for granted. I feel sometimes people just tell you what they want you to hear and after that, the end 😂 please don’t do this.

7. That has your best interest at heart

Lately, I have been screaming all over on how I need a job and I have had amazing people send me job opportunities, it’s the little things but when you think about it they are not so little.

8. Blunt with you.

/blʌnt/ Blunt is direct. There’s a thin line between being blunt and being rude, rude is offensively impolite or bad-mannered.
They always say blunt friends are “the realest friends”, they are straightforward with you, they don’t sugar coat they tell you the truth not what you want to hear.
9. Encourage and support you
There’s nothing like having people that would encourage you and support you, it’s the little things but little things are the big things, patronising your business, advertising, referrals. It’s amazing when the energy is mutual.
10. Funny people
Apart from eating 🤣🙈, one of my favourite things to do is laughing, being around people who make me laugh or being with funny people is something I love.
Life is better when you’re laughing.
11. Money!!!
This is the last but not least, one of the most important if not number 1, people who send or give you money, it brightens up your day, changes your mood.
Not everybody has such people in their lives, especially during this tiring period, so if you do you’re blessed, if you don’t then be “best kind of people” instead.

That’s my top 11, I might probably have to update it later or not.

You should have at least 5 of these qualities, if not all.

It’s always the same energy plixx don’t expect from people what you would not do for them.

Thank you for reading and please comment on it.

Love always

Your favourite blogger,💛

Eyilayo 🍫✨


  1. Ike

    I’m also excited its December. I think everyone likes the free food part. I’m the worst person to take pictures, I know you’re very good at that.
    Thanks for this. I’ll consciously try to do more for people 🤗🤗

  2. Jay

    Most things I’m looking forward to this December you talked about..lovely write up..

  3. Aanu

    I’m extremely thrilled that kindness is emphasized , people can be extremely rude and wicked for no reason. I think this is an opportunity for each and everyone of us to check ourselves and work on our faults.

  4. Nimee❤️

    Happy New Month too✨
    The best read to start a good day🥰💛…
    Take Good Pictures has to be in Caps🤣.Thank God for the few sweethearts i have that take beautiful pictures of me..I remember during my POP when i asked someone to take pictures of me😂all for me to get home and 20 out of 23 pictures were blur😭😩..Thank God for God sha.
    I know a lot of people say they like when people send them food but I’m really indifferent when it comes to me sha😭…Maybe because i don’t want to gain weight🤣🤣
    Suport and Encouragement 🥵🤝 Very Important
    And that Money Part😻…Can’t wait to be rich rich sha;so I’ll send money to all my baby girls and sugar boys🥰 because I definitely definitely LOVE receiving money.

    • Nimi Dollarrrrrrrrrrrr.
      This is my one of my favourite comments ever. That picture thing should be in caps really! Some many people don’t know how to, they’ll now waste your time.
      20 out of 23 omo that’s pure wickedness 😂😂 Thank God
      🤣😂😂😂😂 I love it dieeeeee me and food🤝
      Very important.
      Osheyyyyyyyyy Nimi Dollar and Pounds Sterling I can’t wait for us to be rich rich and have trips and travel around the world and stuff.
      Yesss moneyyyyy💰

  5. Faithful

    Lmao, if your friend happen to only do 5 out of this 11, maybe he/she is just an acquaintance, a Friend should be able to do 8/11.

    I think I have people who do 10/11 tho ☺️
    Happy new month Eyilayo and her Golden pen.

    • True though it should start from 8 but I just like to give people the benefit of doubt.
      What about 11/11? I pray we have people who do 11/11 ❤️
      Happy new month Faithful, thank you for reading ✨

  6. Assumpta(your girl)

    This is such a good read and happy new month my favorite blogger. That blunt quality is very important because people tend to be “yass Queen” even when you are doing nonsense. I totally agree to all eleven qualities. I hope I find 5m on the floor this month 😂
    And by the way I think you have 11/11❤️

  7. Anonymous

    I’m really glad you made this list, most people forget how it is not so hard to be kind and respectful, Its essential to have good people around you, I want to be able to do more for my friends too.
    Happy new month Eyi 🥂✨✨☺️

    • Abolaji

      I feel so good reading this cos I can relate to almost all of it ☺️
      People really need to be kind to people around them and I love the support part, it really goes a long way no matter how small
      And Happy New Month Eyilayomi❤️

    • Thank you for reading🥺❤️
      It’s really not hard.
      I hope you’re able to do that and I hope your friends match your energy too✨
      Happy new month 💛

  8. Anonymous

    Happy New Month Eyilayomi!!!!!!!! 🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾
    You really are right, the little things are the big things and people don’t understand it, which is sooo confusing🙃
    That taking pictures gosh! Its so hard for people to actually take good pictures of you😂😂 if its not blurry, they are cutting your face in half🙁😩
    Keeping to your word is also a veryyy important trait!!
    Your top 11 really do make sense🥺
    Cant wait for your next postt!!💃🏾💃🏾

    • Happy new monthhhhh💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
      It’s very underrated but it is really the big things.
      Ewooo🤣😂😂😂 please put in a lot more effort.
      Yes it is.
      Thank youuuu💃🏿💃🏿

  9. Anonymous

    I guess I can say I have 7/8 of these qualities, the rest I’ll be working on.

  10. Anonymous

    Throw your sub well well😂😂😂😂It has been caught neatly by me. I will not offer to take your pictures again even if you have no choice but to beg me. I will not answer you at all☹️😏😏😏. Indeed a lot of little things matter. People shouldn’t take others for granted. I love this post and I really love you as well. Looking forward to your photography journey beginning fully in 2021 and plenty plenty fun posts to read too. 🤗😘😘🥰.Here’s to you having an amazing and fulfilling new year.🍾🥂🍹.

    • 😂🤣🤣😂😂 at this point I don’t think you’ll have a choice.
      I love you tooooooooooo🥺❤️
      I’m looking forward to that too and sharing with the you.
      Here’s to that to🥂 and many more awesome things to come ❤️

  11. Anonymity

    4/10 ko por ke!!?

  12. So I took out time to read this and it’s such a beautiful piece.
    As I was reading each point, I was like yess that’s me😂
    Mehn, I hate it when people take horrible pictures of me but I always take good pictures of them. It sucks ngl. Dedicate yourself to me mehn.
    And the blunt part, I’m in love with it! Like guy, I appreciate honest people a lot.
    Free food and money? Omo anyone that gives me food and money is automatically my love lmao😂
    The kind and respectful part ehn, I always emphasize it, there’s no reason to be rude to someone who didn’t vex you, respect every person you meet. People who are rude .are annoying and it’s such a great turn off.
    Return things on time!! Bless those who did this because I hate having to ask for my things back mehn
    I love people that are always there, makes me feel important 😍
    People who keep to their word and have my best interest in heart, I love them!
    Those who encourage and support me, I’ll never forget how kind they were. It’s really the little things that count.
    And funny people, this is the only part I know that cracked me up because I’m slow😂😂 but yes, I love laughing a whole lot 😂

    I enjoyed everything you wrote babe. And I agree!!😂
    It’s 11/11 for me 🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️

    Btw, I know you have all 11. So you better spoil me when I come over 😂❤️

    • This comment >>>>
      The pictures part is always a struggle, especially when the energy isn’t returned.
      Ughhhhhhh I started learning self-portrait because of that, learning how to take my own pictures.
      I appreciate them so much, tell me the truth, not following me and agreeing with what I do or say.
      Food and love omoooo 🥺❤️❤️❤️ the intense joy when I feel when I have that, nothing can be compared.
      There’s no reason at all, but with the way the country is, everybody is looking for who to transfer aggression on.
      Why do I have to ask for something you borrowed from me? It’s so annoying.
      It’s always the little things.
      I’m so looking forward to spoiling you and spending time with you🤸🏾‍♀️❤️
      Don’t worry, you got me.
      Thank you for reading loved your comment and all the details in it.❤️

  13. mental

    Omoooooooooo x 1000000000000. When you turn to a mind reader. That picture had to be the 1 in caps. Thank you for being my best and favorite photographer.
    I know I’m not yet 11/11☹ but I’ll work more on it.
    As he be say na your post be my first reading this month, he sure say my December go detty😋.
    Keep up the good work baby gal👍 the lord will continue to strengthen you😊

    • Yesss it did 😂🤣 I always love taking your pictures and forcing you to take 😂🤣
      The effort to work on it is encouraging 👏🏾
      💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 it better the detty detty🤸🏾‍♀️✨
      Amennn! Thank you so much for reading ❤️

  14. Osothestudio

    Saw a lot of comments. I am scared to drop one mediocre comment now.🤣. But mad o, the post is detailed to the tip. We the Friends that comment on your blog are your number 1 o🔥

  15. Anonymous

    To be fair I agree with everything but I think taking good pictures is being taken for granted I think the best pictures are the ones taken unaware only good friends do that. Obviously There’s the food bit which I totally second. great piece by the way🥺

  16. Sijuwade

    It’s the funny people for me😂😂 someone who has all eleven should come and pay my bride price🤲🏽

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